tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79423415839765639682024-03-05T13:04:42.747-05:00Related 2 CayleyIt's All RelativeCayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-39842756099256428512010-05-18T09:29:00.000-04:002010-05-18T12:52:27.289-04:00Wow, the emo kids are starting earlier and earlier...<div style="text-align: left;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVa-_IPv5C_ARJ82CNOH4BKAIBkKmuIaNcnqyDsgGK6n2sqf8cAxNDfIeaz3CYW52TwuVG_8xUMrXPfO_jcq0DalNBkgUEEh1S_NC1YVSSN3a89cRREKgiTUvBPAMZp6RY2A55KU1EMGA/s1600/IMG00001.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVa-_IPv5C_ARJ82CNOH4BKAIBkKmuIaNcnqyDsgGK6n2sqf8cAxNDfIeaz3CYW52TwuVG_8xUMrXPfO_jcq0DalNBkgUEEh1S_NC1YVSSN3a89cRREKgiTUvBPAMZp6RY2A55KU1EMGA/s320/IMG00001.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5455532024877727362" border="0" /></a><br /></div>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-42647945508267614892010-04-17T10:42:00.005-04:002010-04-17T11:22:48.393-04:00Conversations With My Son<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLDaCW_ERRluNZfhTaFm3_qUjcGluCEjHauz4Cb1acFHYfCId8m3oT9TBm89fJvPb7-BSduMdPBXbBrHC3fA7c5CiAHGu1wtT7WlwaAaTTfWgNUuADdDn0ApxrlE2pSfOCY01DLKylOIE/s1600/Donut-sales0509-2.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 161px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLDaCW_ERRluNZfhTaFm3_qUjcGluCEjHauz4Cb1acFHYfCId8m3oT9TBm89fJvPb7-BSduMdPBXbBrHC3fA7c5CiAHGu1wtT7WlwaAaTTfWgNUuADdDn0ApxrlE2pSfOCY01DLKylOIE/s320/Donut-sales0509-2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461126326168667026" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">Him:</span> Mom, did you know Dunkin' Donuts has a new Munchkin flavor? <span style="font-size:78%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">[Ed. Note - I think it's just new to him]</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> I did not.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Him:</span> We had some in school yesterday. They're vanilla with sprinkles.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> Did you like them?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Him:</span> Well, Ryan had four of them and didn't get sick of the sprinkles but I had two of them and got sick of the sprinkles. It's like we're on a whole different level.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-62537757324792701032010-03-28T22:14:00.002-04:002010-04-17T12:10:23.896-04:00If You....Hate cancer and love Sheldon...<br /><br />ETA: I didn't realize this wouldn't fit in the space on my blog. But if you mouse over the video and click on the name of the video in the upper left corner it will take you to the youtube page.<br /><br /><br /><object height="385" width="640"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/z-R2eqF5m9Y&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/z-R2eqF5m9Y&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&hl=en_US&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="385" width="640"></embed></object>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-88098915863590840462010-03-18T08:56:00.008-04:002010-03-18T19:54:24.994-04:00Be Not AfraidA year and a day ago I lost my Mom to her third battle with cancer. It was hard but surreal, and while I sobbed uncontrollably at the time of her death I have not really cried since then. I reasoned that I was probably numb, that the shock hadn't hit me yet. It was all so different and fast, yet methodical and controlled.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-kWgP0icC6U7GOXxPGClnh9J43Lib6r2uFl6wSohNSqUzrQ-4hTIxHU5d3V7pD1xTxKmdqRcPX7DIVZSqw8tNVhgvo_f2FkNpkQavvlAA3KyL3r-A59HTu0jH5YeTrQvigvJXya87gfA/s1600-h/DoniHPaige.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-kWgP0icC6U7GOXxPGClnh9J43Lib6r2uFl6wSohNSqUzrQ-4hTIxHU5d3V7pD1xTxKmdqRcPX7DIVZSqw8tNVhgvo_f2FkNpkQavvlAA3KyL3r-A59HTu0jH5YeTrQvigvJXya87gfA/s320/DoniHPaige.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449971463976240850" border="0" /></a>She was having a lot of trouble eating, and upon investigation they found her stomach to be full of tumors. They went in to do a bypass in her stomach so that it wouldn't be so painful to eat but when they opened her up they saw it had spread quite uncontrollably and that she had little time left. When she awoke from her anesthesia she was nonsensical and a little silly, giggling and talking in baby talk. We chalked it up to the after effects of the morphine. When the morphine stopped the loopiness didn't and my brothers called me. I flew out the next day.<br /><br />Her liver was failing and couldn't process the anesthesia or any ammonia from her blood, which was why she had trouble with her cognizance. She refused to take the meds that would help. She kept fighting them and saying they were trying to poison her. So they just didn't give them to her. They felt fighting with her would be too much for her to handle. When I arrived I saw they were putting it in orange juice. I explained to them it was probably the o.j. she was objecting to as she had cut citrus out of her diet because she also had severe kidney disease. We were able to convince her to drink apple juice laced with the icky, syrupy meds and for one afternoon she came mostly out of her fog and I was able to talk to her and explain what was going on. She was very brave. She asked about trying another hospital and I told her that we might be able to if she took her medications and cooperated with the nurses. That was a little bit of a misleading statement. The cancer was extreme. Her condition was frail. She had beaten it valiantly two other times before but this time it had won. It was only a matter of time. After a few minutes of thinking about it she then asked why she wasn't in hospice. I told her that was the next step and she would be moved there by the next day. She said, "Good." and seemed genuinely relieved when she laid her head down on her pillow.<br /><br />In the years leading up to this she had told me repeatedly that she was ready to die, that she hated chemotherapy, that she didn't want to fight it the next time. But my impression even then was that she was telling my brothers something different. I don't think she was lying to any of us, I think she had conflicting feelings and dealt with them by discussing a different emotion with a different kid. For instance, it upset my younger brother Dereck to hear her talk about her end so she reserved that conversation for me. I was willing to support her no matter what she said because I didn't want to upset <span style="font-style: italic;">her</span>. I knew what she was feeling was something she needed to talk about so I usually listened while automatically taking her more dramatic statements with a grain of salt. My Mom loved drama, so I had been doing that for pretty much all my life anyway.<br /><br />This led to a pretty brief but big fight between Dereck and I. He wanted her to come home with him, and I felt like it would be too much for him. He is a young man who had been taking care of my mother for decades. She had relied on him way too much, and for way too long. I felt that hospice was the answer because she would get what she needed medically and he would be able to begin the process of life without her. But he knew her better than anyone, knew how much fight she still had left in her, and felt he was the right one to care for her. The problem was we both kept looking at it as a long term thing. We pictured my mother living months, and maybe even another year. There were grand schemes at work in both our heads. The truth was, we were to discover, she only had eight more days.<br /><br />She was moved to an absolutely wonderful hospice. It wasn't the way I had pictured it: musty, dark and smelling of urine. It was bright and sunny, newly built and still smelling slightly of fresh paint. There was art on the walls and tiled mosaic flowers crept around door frames. There was a patio with a beautiful fountain that was wheelchair accessible. The best thing of all, they welcomed dogs.<br /><br />My mom had a big white dog named Max. This dog was so sweet and so devoted, <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7S5IOxXgSb7aCiYx3sIdbCGpam0rwhSwQyhboy2s7KyDfwDBenLGMHmYCZqfYypl0OFVfCrecaWzH9jB3nv6iv4rBB15uHzcn9ap6br8MqMzFnc-z68tEmPZLSyEcFYRD167Zcva3ZMw/s1600-h/25266_106289386058397_100000320080941_157604_5696639_n.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7S5IOxXgSb7aCiYx3sIdbCGpam0rwhSwQyhboy2s7KyDfwDBenLGMHmYCZqfYypl0OFVfCrecaWzH9jB3nv6iv4rBB15uHzcn9ap6br8MqMzFnc-z68tEmPZLSyEcFYRD167Zcva3ZMw/s200/25266_106289386058397_100000320080941_157604_5696639_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449973984675648098" border="0" /></a>and she had said repeatedly that she couldn't die until Max did because the idea of leaving him without her was too much for her. The first few days she was there he was there too. But by early on the third day it was becoming apparent that her condition was changing and we stopped bringing him. She had stopped waking up and talking and had started to breathe strangely. With the nurses coming in and out more frequently, and us spending so much time at the facility, it was too hard to confine him to the one room for so long during the day.<br /><br />On top of all this there was someone else we had to take into consideration: her husband. My Mom's fourth marriage was to a man she had dated for about two years back in the 70's. They rekindled their romance through the US Postal Service in the late 90's, traveled to see each other and quickly decided to get hitched. Unfortunately, in the years following they discovered Joe was suffering from Alzheimer's and had to be moved into a nursing home. Other arrangements were going to need to be made for his care and so we called his kids. His daughter Trish flew out on the sixth day after my Mom entered hospice.<br /><br />And then, the next day, St. Patrick's Day 2009 it happened. The universe aligned in perfect order to arrange for my Mom's move to the next realm. My older brother Bill had been handling all the paper work issues, and he and Trish had things they had to work out. They hadn't seen each other since we were kids and even then Bill hung out with her older brother. I decided to tag along, my only contribution being that I knew both of them and I was the buffer for the slight awkwardness of having lunch with a complete stranger you're related to. Lunch went until about one, and I had promised Trish I would be back at the house by 4:30 so I could babysit her daughter while she took care of the kind of grownup errands to which you don't want to drag a 2-year-old. As I started to leave for the hospice I looked over at Max and thought, "it's only a few hours, this is a perfect time to get him over there again."<br /><br />When we got there Max went over to say "hi" to her. I held out her hand to him to give a lick. He seemed satisfied and found a comfortable spot on the cool floor. I sat down and talked to her about Trish's arrival, how lunch went, all the daily news. Then I had The Talk I had every other day with her since she went into hospice. I told her it was ok to let go whenever she was ready. That she didn't need to worry about us kids because we were handling everything. Bill was doing great with all the paperwork, Dereck was doing great at taking care of the house, and all of us were getting along better and getting closer than ever before. Joe was going to be well taken care of by his kids, and even though Max was going to miss her, Dereck was going to give him the greatest home and take just as good care of him as she had. I also pointed out on this particular day that it was St. Patrick's Day and if she wanted to make sure no one ever forgot the day of her death, doing it on a national holiday was a good start. Trust me, if you knew her you'd know that would be just the thing that would make her laugh.<br /><br />For the past four days her breathing had been very noisy. This was because as she exhaled she made noises with her vocal cord. About 45 minutes after I had arrived, after I had had the talk with her, and done a few other things, my phone rang. It was my husband. While we chatted I noticed that Max's bowl of water was empty so I brought it and the phone into the bathroom, rinsed it, refilled it, caught up with how things were going back home. As I carried the bowl out and placed it on the ground I was struck by how silent it was. She wasn't making that sound. My words caught in my throat. I hung up the phone and ran out to get a nurse. I couldn't even explain I just looked panicked and pointed back at my mothers room. They know what that means. A nurse came back with me and checked her heartbeat. She told me she wasn't gone but it was coming. It might be in five minutes, it might be in five hours but it was imminent. Bill and Dereck were each pretty far from the hospice at the time. I started making call but couldn't concentrate so I called Bill and had him call whoever needed to know right now what was going on. In retrospect that was probably a really bad idea since he was trying to drive over at the same time.<br /><br />I sat in the chair next to my mom and studied her face, watching to see if anything happened. They say sometimes people wake up just before they go and say one last thing. I was looking to see if she suddenly looked more blissful, more scared. More lifeless. Which seemed impossible. I neurotically checked her breathing with a finger under her nose every few seconds. Then I began to doubt my senses so I started checking with a wet finger. At first I would feel breath. And then I wouldn't. And then I would. It seems like an obvious pattern but sometimes there was a whole lot of long lags between them. Was she only taking a breath a minute or was I missing 55 seconds worth of breathing at a time? After what seemed like a few minutes of not feeling anything, feeling like I had to know, and not knowing how to calm myself down I grabbed my sunglasses and held them under her nose. When nothing fogged them I rationalized that it had to be that I wasn't holding them close enough, or the tinting made it to hard to read. As I reached for my regular glasses to repeat the experiment I stopped myself. I had lost my mind. I needed a nurse. As much as I feared this was going to be a long day of embarrassing myself by grabbing an increasingly annoyed nurse every 10 minutes, I had to know. But it wasn't going to turn out that way. This was the last time I was to need her.<br /><br />I always felt this was the perfect end for her. She didn't die frightened. She didn't linger forever. She had her dog with her and someone who loved her. She was in hospice, which she knew would be comforting. She was in a place that was beautiful and artistic. Her kids came together for her. I was sad, and I cried, but mostly in a "OMGMyMotherJustDiedRightInFrontOfMe!!!" kind of way. I had told her everything I needed to tell and I believe we were at peace with our relationship. I had been preparing for two weeks and I knew her suffering was over. It was a good death.<br /><br />When we met with her pastor about her memorial service I remember deferring a lot of the questions to my brothers. They knew her better than I did, having lived with or near her for years and years more than I had. When asked what music she would have wanted, Dereck mentioned that she loved "Be Not Afraid," and that he noticed it was being performed by the churches choir that Sunday. He requested that they sing it at her service, or if that wasn't possible, that they record the one from the upcoming Sunday and play it. Her memorial service was held the following month so that friends and family from far away could arrange to attend. After it was over I noticed they hadn't played "Be Not Afraid". I wondered at the time if the pastor had forgotten or if they hadn't been able to get the recording, but since it was all over I didn't want to make waves so I never found out why it hadn't been featured.<br /><br />And so a year went by, and yesterday was the one year anniversary. I had thought about placing an in memorium notice in the paper, but I didn't. I mant to post something on my Facebook wall to commemorate her. But I didn't. My husband approached me and told me it was ok if I wanted to cry. But I didn't. I spent the day feeling like I had forgotten to do something, and couldn't really concentrate on anything but I wasn't depressed or distraught. Although I did feel guilty about that this morning.<br /><br />My son goes to a small parochial school up the street, which is attached to a church to which we do not attend, but keep meaning to. After dropping him off at school today I walked past the church and the idea struck me that I needed to think about Vacation Bible School this year. His friends will be there and since we are terrible at religious stuff, I don't want him to be too far behind in that area. So I went home and brought up the church's website and saw a link to "Start Your Day." It's not like me to go clicking around the internet looking for religious things, and it didn't look like it had anything to do with Bible camp but, being easily distracted, I thought maybe they'll have a prompt I can use in my <a href="http://cayleyhyers.blogspot.com/2010/03/wasted-talent.html">quest</a> to update my blog more frequently. Immediately some music came up with the page, but I didn't recognize it. Then I saw the music credit at the bottom of the page in small type.<br /><br />It was "<a href="http://blip.fm/profile/castaway_cayley/blip/38786388/St.+John+the+Baptist+Choir%E2%80%93Be+Not+Afraid">Be Not Afraid</a>."<br /><br />And that's when I cried.<br /><br />I miss her. I almost bought her a Christmas present a few months ago. I sometimes forget I don't have her on this world with me anymore. But hearing that song this morning tells me she's still here, somewhere, and doing just fine. My Mom always told me the God always found her a parking spot and a quarter. Looks like God found a way to give me what I needed today too. It's nice to know he's on the internet!Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-74867825909190746032010-03-16T11:12:00.005-04:002010-03-16T14:23:50.719-04:00Wasted TalentIt seems like every time I come back here I talk about why I haven't been here. This can't possibly be interesting to anybody, so I won't go into it now. But it does relate a little to what I'm thinking about today.<br /><br />Last night my family and I watched <span style="font-style: italic;">A Bronx Tale</span>, a fantastic story of a kid growing up in a 1960's Bronx neighborhood, caught in the middle of the classic good vs. evil struggle:<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVgb1PHWj4cQSmev9FQlkWsx7v4h36D2XEOHu91cx21GspmkU5ynZy-oaTxneamfOe7s23cZiuMsAGmPUYGYA0M4l1X7s05uACH4rtl6pWQDcey40ust5i6aYogrxnbGpXfxMmGpoHNBU/s1600-h/chazz.JPG"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVgb1PHWj4cQSmev9FQlkWsx7v4h36D2XEOHu91cx21GspmkU5ynZy-oaTxneamfOe7s23cZiuMsAGmPUYGYA0M4l1X7s05uACH4rtl6pWQDcey40ust5i6aYogrxnbGpXfxMmGpoHNBU/s320/chazz.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449296429797407234" border="0" /></a> His father is a decent, hardworking man who refuses to be corrupted. His mentor is the local mobster (I'm way too suburban white-bread boring to know the proper terminology for his position despite having watched all six seasons of <span style="font-style: italic;">The</span> <span style="font-style: italic;">Sopranos</span>.) The story is mostly true, based on the childhood of actor/author Chazz Palminteri.<br /><br />The movie is certainly a classic, and I highly recommend it, but this is not a movie review. It's about hearing something in the movie that hit me, all epiphany-like.<br /><br />A few different times the father tells the main character, "The saddest thing in life is wasted talent." This morning I printed those words and taped them to the wall over my desk. I put my writing under the category of a talent. I mean, I'm not a fantastic writer who will write the greatest novel ever to be seen, I will probably never see anything of mine featured anywhere that actually pays for that type of thing. Just because mine is not the best talent of all those who have it still makes it a talent, doesn't it? Or maybe if I'm not going to be the next Hemingway I should just not bother. From what I understand, there have been writers who are <a href="http://mlmoutsidethebox.com/6-reasons-why-twilight-sucks/">considered untalented</a> who have made millions. If I enjoy writing things that are virtually unreadable I should still write them, I suppose. Besides, how will I get any better when all I do is <span style="font-style: italic;">think</span> about how this, that or the other thing would make a good blog entry.<br /><br />Look at me talking myself into writing. From what I understand the great writers can't not write. I can't not not write. But, continuing on the theme from the "wasted talent" line, I am sad a lot of the time. Maybe the sad thing in my life is the talent I'm letting go to waste. Perhaps I haven't realized that the sad will go away when I write. Maybe that's the connection I always thought was lacking.<br /><br />Despite my realization that living a life philosophy based on a line from a movie is inherently sad in and of itself, I'm gonna give it a whack. Couldn't be any worse than Scientology.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-9942708028368190022009-11-05T14:28:00.003-05:002009-11-05T14:48:10.969-05:00A Little Christmas Tip<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZP5t-uXBEy4S_bN-dqeEWvBvjHXVCoBIO4joE8C7ziIM4SDWSYnKZQVxydBH9ZrxbeL7lUOqgmsZa2E2d2jO0HHBpzSz1_5lz0sNPrCpkoJfU1bjnZWP7fznAwtY246AGePjIlY_lkSE/s1600-h/logo-amazon.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZP5t-uXBEy4S_bN-dqeEWvBvjHXVCoBIO4joE8C7ziIM4SDWSYnKZQVxydBH9ZrxbeL7lUOqgmsZa2E2d2jO0HHBpzSz1_5lz0sNPrCpkoJfU1bjnZWP7fznAwtY246AGePjIlY_lkSE/s200/logo-amazon.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400708638784511026" border="0" /></a>I can't stress enough how much Wish Lists rock. I know there are people out there who believe they take the mystery and spontaneity out of gift giving. This is true, but consider that sometimes perusing someones gift list can at least tell you what kinds of things someone is interested in, and possibly help with sizes, even if you don't actually buy directly from the list.<br /><br />Personally I love the Amazon Wish List feature. Not only does Amazon have a great selection of so many things, but if you can make your list accessible to anyone who knows your email address, and even send people the link to it if you feel they could really use some guidance. You can also make wish lists for your kids if you have them, avoiding that annual ritual of having to read the letter he/she/they wrote to Santa to every aunt and cousin in the lower 48.<br /><br />In addition to putting things on the list that you can get from Amazon, you can also download a button to your computer that will add an item from any website from which you happen to find something you want. It's called the Universal Wish List<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/wishlist/universal"></a> and you can get it <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/wishlist/universal">here</a>.<br /><br />So, please: If you are the slightest bit difficult to buy for, and there are tons of things you or your kids want, or there's any chance I'll get you in a Secret Santa pool: Make a wish list!!Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-40294253544062153792009-10-21T22:33:00.003-04:002009-11-05T14:50:21.679-05:00My Sushi...is very pretty tonight. Just wanted to share.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcRxc-CLLPy1lybHNAjTVFX0Kclnjy1v6oyWbzskKmR-qShyrrMl8CbkzhnWc7VdhA3PkLQFFaXyyNN47DINkRUVh_TFdLUKIZAqNFLloyh4nLYnb1k5WOM8aJYiTSEg7xumkP_YLbt_Q/s1600-h/P1000663.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcRxc-CLLPy1lybHNAjTVFX0Kclnjy1v6oyWbzskKmR-qShyrrMl8CbkzhnWc7VdhA3PkLQFFaXyyNN47DINkRUVh_TFdLUKIZAqNFLloyh4nLYnb1k5WOM8aJYiTSEg7xumkP_YLbt_Q/s320/P1000663.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395247364938855554" border="0" /></a>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-55043925319992105152009-10-12T11:20:00.007-04:002009-10-12T11:30:16.847-04:00Conversations With My Son<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJdhgmxYvSS9-GzOXlZbUW-8f63UNj-agL4Qx-hODvpng6ATSAMez9G6ipuJuwJx2LGNQ8GsoE2FKhfN9ulUwgT0wOFzGktQYLazK_Np2KeMzBQxfEBANV4OrV-WqSYbi3zJe-PzshgKg/s1600-h/bubbles.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 152px; height: 179px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJdhgmxYvSS9-GzOXlZbUW-8f63UNj-agL4Qx-hODvpng6ATSAMez9G6ipuJuwJx2LGNQ8GsoE2FKhfN9ulUwgT0wOFzGktQYLazK_Np2KeMzBQxfEBANV4OrV-WqSYbi3zJe-PzshgKg/s200/bubbles.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391735469620083042" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> Please don't blow spit bubbles.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Him:</span> Why not?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> It's gross.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Him:</span> But I only blow spit bubbles because I can't blow booger bubbles.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> <span style="font-style: italic;">(gags)<br /><br /><br /><br /></span>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-33361151799678282612009-05-21T14:54:00.001-04:002009-05-21T17:09:16.835-04:00A New Era Dawns...A lot has happened for me over the last few months. A lot will hopefully be happening over the next few. And if you're reading this, I'll be sharing it with you from wherever I go! That's all I can say for now... Meanwhile, please enjoy this picture of my cat playing in our hamster aquarium. Yeah, I know...<br /><br /><p class="mobile-photo"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxt8u313Jd_a63vTs-V1LiOe2kOyPLkQK6dBwK1K3nuL-impWlAsQbjK3rvHNwslPVN6FWhcqIn08B3Z2YV2YQduDDRDfkB6Ifn4FWyN9wzURjB4PF_EluV4UqrIIaXiuq_pspAPoywek/s1600-h/=%3Futf-8%3FB%3FSU1HMDAwMTMuanBn%3F=-798532"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxt8u313Jd_a63vTs-V1LiOe2kOyPLkQK6dBwK1K3nuL-impWlAsQbjK3rvHNwslPVN6FWhcqIn08B3Z2YV2YQduDDRDfkB6Ifn4FWyN9wzURjB4PF_EluV4UqrIIaXiuq_pspAPoywek/s320/=%3Futf-8%3FB%3FSU1HMDAwMTMuanBn%3F=-798532" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338356150606890066" border="0" /></a></p>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-16150366785726590442009-02-01T14:00:00.019-05:002009-02-01T17:35:50.713-05:00My Lost Party - Let Me Show You ItAs soon as the date was announced for the premiere episode for Lost Season 5 I began planning my <span style="font-style: italic;">Lost</span> Party. My original plan was to have people over for the actual airing, but my wise friend Gerry suggested we should watch that in our own homes, undistracted and uninterrupted. Then we could get together to rewatch it after having time to stew on all the theories that arose. It was a great idea! The conversation, debates and laughs were in abundance and we all had a great time. What follows are pictures of what I did. Any of these pictures can be enlarged if you click on it, if you'd like to see more detail.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Party Decorations:</span></span><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: left;">Of course, the obligatory palm trees...<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX5tybwNx9fz1atZYs-WjpQmP8U0MDPaEoPX2_5G9nUjB9BK_Gs3qUQJh2bFfvVEoJHgmoOq7tu79nbO5lZ3ssBPtbMKTedUBzWLmGoCrj2LRkKlSrIN9SbFoV3EyVFp7IvyeQAUtZtbM/s1600-h/IMG_2465.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX5tybwNx9fz1atZYs-WjpQmP8U0MDPaEoPX2_5G9nUjB9BK_Gs3qUQJh2bFfvVEoJHgmoOq7tu79nbO5lZ3ssBPtbMKTedUBzWLmGoCrj2LRkKlSrIN9SbFoV3EyVFp7IvyeQAUtZtbM/s200/IMG_2465.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297951622095719202" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">But this one has a little Hurley hanging out underneath, as drawn by my 5 yr old son.<br /></div></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglEqh0xGy_eZtyC4FFESfunFmN0l4IRcr5HA-aqHI3KmlroIYZUtT32_9n1x_5zaV5ophm_7VVHSE3Sf_mx-z5CF8Ch6Tpi8gIukJyNBHgZ3FCZJzrt5w7LEvWkGMH3yXVBi6Z9rThqbc/s1600-h/IMG_2464.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglEqh0xGy_eZtyC4FFESfunFmN0l4IRcr5HA-aqHI3KmlroIYZUtT32_9n1x_5zaV5ophm_7VVHSE3Sf_mx-z5CF8Ch6Tpi8gIukJyNBHgZ3FCZJzrt5w7LEvWkGMH3yXVBi6Z9rThqbc/s200/IMG_2464.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297951623864833218" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">I put a generic tropical themed tablecloth on the table and thought it would be cute to add a little extra <span style="font-style: italic;">Lost</span> touch...<br /></div></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJgZsMYiWFVF9dU38jodCmgfBLS8iTYMh-A5c5kQAdTN97samHEdVG1s_JGVrMfanOgpIdhw6Y9INf06rWApz1CoaejlYTj-yfyNGw_hhz8fyJc719qLrDrS2qDvvERsuiZ4HAM6rG1Fo/s1600-h/IMG_2470.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJgZsMYiWFVF9dU38jodCmgfBLS8iTYMh-A5c5kQAdTN97samHEdVG1s_JGVrMfanOgpIdhw6Y9INf06rWApz1CoaejlYTj-yfyNGw_hhz8fyJc719qLrDrS2qDvvERsuiZ4HAM6rG1Fo/s200/IMG_2470.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297951620439944994" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: left;">...that led to an idea to add Lost quotes all over the plain white area in the middle of the tablecloth. I wish I had thought of this earlier; then it would have been completely filled. More on the jars you see there in the food section.<br /></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxi0lM5P85qqN6_3LImwSymrO35e5zrV-aeFTe0IHcMFQYgQAd3wWBC8H1KC3Dnnpq90-BDmgo8cgBBIZ185eniLUvK49p3Q6pGyGNfQVO5rwsAuUYhDKNMjXVv0VEUOtq6mDTNqlxvgg/s1600-h/IMG_2468.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxi0lM5P85qqN6_3LImwSymrO35e5zrV-aeFTe0IHcMFQYgQAd3wWBC8H1KC3Dnnpq90-BDmgo8cgBBIZ185eniLUvK49p3Q6pGyGNfQVO5rwsAuUYhDKNMjXVv0VEUOtq6mDTNqlxvgg/s200/IMG_2468.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297951609307072306" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAqD0kieGTG355dZ6eeeztF6cCIJhbyjEPFUwgJIQq2vpAK1ffAUtLAddCvDfRAQZddfXIGBYOGMt7YT-aaf4A1UwRC7TaasipcMf8S0Bc_hK-XQDwB8kLuSTNenppeyDHkD13sfAS_yA/s1600-h/IMG_2469.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAqD0kieGTG355dZ6eeeztF6cCIJhbyjEPFUwgJIQq2vpAK1ffAUtLAddCvDfRAQZddfXIGBYOGMt7YT-aaf4A1UwRC7TaasipcMf8S0Bc_hK-XQDwB8kLuSTNenppeyDHkD13sfAS_yA/s200/IMG_2469.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297951613781321042" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-size:130%;">The Party Food:<br /></span></div><br />This is the sign I made to hang over the "Hurley Buffet." The drawing of Hurley in the van was drawn by James Boudreaux II and I found it at his site, <a href="http://lostboysproject.com/">The Lost Boys Project</a>, where he has lots of great comics based on the <span style="font-style: italic;">Lost</span> characters.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWOTsZsQIMxwzvVzIxcAFCjC3TJExPlrFPx7Ix_RomAcKcB5Z6j2MR-uQ-LS-an6jeXMo3eYTKYznawaxeK0OUecJcpd1jxaVRsCUsw0vTk2KrngckmydktnwIyT08HRhZBHmTiZIo93I/s1600-h/IMG_2459.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWOTsZsQIMxwzvVzIxcAFCjC3TJExPlrFPx7Ix_RomAcKcB5Z6j2MR-uQ-LS-an6jeXMo3eYTKYznawaxeK0OUecJcpd1jxaVRsCUsw0vTk2KrngckmydktnwIyT08HRhZBHmTiZIo93I/s200/IMG_2459.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297942348512243170" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Hurley's Island Buffet:<br />"Where if you eat more comfort food,<br />You won't go around shooting people!"</span></span><br /></div><br />Here's a closer look at the jars from earlier. For some unknown reason I did not get a shot of the jar of Dharma Ranch Dip and the veggie platter. Rest assured, it looked awesome.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_Lnr-aZgqQMBL0RDva7GhBAQGigWRak7B6vEVHD-3BWB_FJMzrE6KTD0ZI8YE17rppsTDHuID-8d3FW5D82tV3f-NRxdHGeuEZaFcC2CFcpnbkhNe5hfaaNwlti7uohd_KJaNRhY0fmE/s1600-h/IMG_2460.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_Lnr-aZgqQMBL0RDva7GhBAQGigWRak7B6vEVHD-3BWB_FJMzrE6KTD0ZI8YE17rppsTDHuID-8d3FW5D82tV3f-NRxdHGeuEZaFcC2CFcpnbkhNe5hfaaNwlti7uohd_KJaNRhY0fmE/s200/IMG_2460.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297942345723505394" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br />The table had two platters on it. The top has mangoes and papayas, for obvious reasons and the bottom has pepperoni and cheese in homage to Cheech's sandwich in "The Lie". Too bad my budget didn't allow for caviar or we <span style="font-style: italic;">so</span> would have had those sandwiches, even if I had to guilt my guests into trying a bite.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguzDuRMx8d0VKQVsJtPvn8Zm6lIr7QmCe5A-1ktzHTsXzYsHrxn3uJAsNX_0s16hVmXS9Sk6-vXcYIGyX3qQcqJaRZp06xrle8O4pSdNMwB61Ax_XW9Eh10uPSzX6-e6OIc9ctgFz7fYI/s1600-h/IMG_2467.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguzDuRMx8d0VKQVsJtPvn8Zm6lIr7QmCe5A-1ktzHTsXzYsHrxn3uJAsNX_0s16hVmXS9Sk6-vXcYIGyX3qQcqJaRZp06xrle8O4pSdNMwB61Ax_XW9Eh10uPSzX6-e6OIc9ctgFz7fYI/s200/IMG_2467.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297942342008207522" border="0" /></a><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Tower of Goodies!</span><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj34kSfvZrvJkm0knH2u9fardMm3ucv40Bltsvmu2fTyT5fD4Ei1GwmaNBgWd_6pugo2O6aF_s-SnUpmbuwdOwaghMh5Mi_FYkQuXf0hyphenhyphenkdx8x4UR-jH_nPCym2pcrwlZQUjhEej3iZ_DE/s1600-h/IMG_2472.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj34kSfvZrvJkm0knH2u9fardMm3ucv40Bltsvmu2fTyT5fD4Ei1GwmaNBgWd_6pugo2O6aF_s-SnUpmbuwdOwaghMh5Mi_FYkQuXf0hyphenhyphenkdx8x4UR-jH_nPCym2pcrwlZQUjhEej3iZ_DE/s200/IMG_2472.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297939002005692786" border="0" /></a><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />What's on it?<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX4c1B9ktex31LkdLkOCdtHUWQecrw348dT0YdxpRufDo5XYXX-AeDLJTzeOFfTjL3o2trsKDPtX2yH8HqQIWyh1Vcn44HioCC4LfiIbnOz2HVMWN5qZ_ppP2cU6Uevuu-5azfY_QIjQk/s1600-h/IMG_2478.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 144px; height: 107px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX4c1B9ktex31LkdLkOCdtHUWQecrw348dT0YdxpRufDo5XYXX-AeDLJTzeOFfTjL3o2trsKDPtX2yH8HqQIWyh1Vcn44HioCC4LfiIbnOz2HVMWN5qZ_ppP2cU6Uevuu-5azfY_QIjQk/s200/IMG_2478.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297938996078397426" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGmcQs5dt-rve83PWl0kXGcaKlIXGkUFpV-vrbb2MP1VV1EJP3rxHqFHzobasTfmhUGGrzJOGqmQIFl-XOiwvyzhw6zZyUJJUvHxoszPPwKe-29BVNcpIJd7AGJBFlyv4WfrKCjpvYy5U/s1600-h/IMG_2477.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 144px; height: 107px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGmcQs5dt-rve83PWl0kXGcaKlIXGkUFpV-vrbb2MP1VV1EJP3rxHqFHzobasTfmhUGGrzJOGqmQIFl-XOiwvyzhw6zZyUJJUvHxoszPPwKe-29BVNcpIJd7AGJBFlyv4WfrKCjpvYy5U/s200/IMG_2477.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297938991151801698" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8SNx_Z4Y4RF0ImgB7moxP-1ir5AE-phYt6GLzBrcbomAfkusYzkqXB_ujl6aJrSelEpgzBRhDqNPDXGFt4UsF79qBGjFm3XH5iDeXKdRWrEqRIgZ7YEslb9DF4XPi7NoDGJTIcAaOtCQ/s1600-h/IMG_2476.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 141px; height: 107px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8SNx_Z4Y4RF0ImgB7moxP-1ir5AE-phYt6GLzBrcbomAfkusYzkqXB_ujl6aJrSelEpgzBRhDqNPDXGFt4UsF79qBGjFm3XH5iDeXKdRWrEqRIgZ7YEslb9DF4XPi7NoDGJTIcAaOtCQ/s200/IMG_2476.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297938981202418546" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Ho-Ho's (watch out for dead rock stars!), Dharmalars,<br />Chocolate Cream Cookies</span></span><br /></div><br />Next to the Tower of Goodies was a crock pot full of Mr. Cluck's Chicken Shack Breaded Baked Chicken Wings with homemade blue cheese dressing. They were awesome, dude.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Frozen Donkey Wheel:</span><br /><div style="text-align: left;">A lime margarita-style blender drink. The lime is cut to look like it has spokes coming out of it. And it was all kinds of yummy. Notice the Connect 4 pieces surrounding the drink. Somehow I also forgot to get a picture of the game as well.<br /><br /></div> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsDFXBENNOS24F9TuUFoFyIaXXxzfFHOlNRaENH83OFY0nc_bL0LjPuzgGoFB8pRM5SoalUlLp_E_3lk6RgfvqFlonELf_2Zo1JAXX6fjTJCTgnIS3PynvQsl-4GPraWUnV3laH87D22s/s1600-h/IMG_2480.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsDFXBENNOS24F9TuUFoFyIaXXxzfFHOlNRaENH83OFY0nc_bL0LjPuzgGoFB8pRM5SoalUlLp_E_3lk6RgfvqFlonELf_2Zo1JAXX6fjTJCTgnIS3PynvQsl-4GPraWUnV3laH87D22s/s200/IMG_2480.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297937123438390082" border="0" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Party Favors:</span><br /><div style="text-align: left;">I made Dharma Fish Biscuits... really just sugar cookies with cookie icing.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimjPTrzJfV9dfJ0f_W-MD-pJG4YQJK01zAt02-JsNwuoux1_XW1TajTpvLlLSpDMtXaRf2m036IkNDRpzkcjvsPw12INikDVrN7nRLRAD8fyjUI5znVNb62Jd_xc3pjZPnnclPU5j_F3w/s1600-h/IMG_2458.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 151px; height: 114px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimjPTrzJfV9dfJ0f_W-MD-pJG4YQJK01zAt02-JsNwuoux1_XW1TajTpvLlLSpDMtXaRf2m036IkNDRpzkcjvsPw12INikDVrN7nRLRAD8fyjUI5znVNb62Jd_xc3pjZPnnclPU5j_F3w/s200/IMG_2458.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297933449075318850" border="0" /></a><br /></div></div></div><br />After I wrote "DHARMA" on them and put them in bags they looked like this. I also gave lil' Dharma polar bears. How cute are they?<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;"><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdmGK92VtG5d0FxkEK1WfiG3dAAeFSJ6t4FcLLWu1Nh06KjVW2Q1WqRzYCo7wMUQDdcnycSVU6Euz-8pX986VJKOp3jdGjIV-Ahz4DDOGpSaLN8Af9g6ZA9SJcMjySi1xZXQ8PTENdyQQ/s1600-h/IMG_2471.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdmGK92VtG5d0FxkEK1WfiG3dAAeFSJ6t4FcLLWu1Nh06KjVW2Q1WqRzYCo7wMUQDdcnycSVU6Euz-8pX986VJKOp3jdGjIV-Ahz4DDOGpSaLN8Af9g6ZA9SJcMjySi1xZXQ8PTENdyQQ/s200/IMG_2471.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297933440611401378" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs3nPttH9bBaN6NASpiZ2u0nQdv10emNmj3XhZbRhytAp3yWPSusmndTcG-MFoE1SvBo8oiUH5qN48AXJw3ZxOEiwiVrjfR9X73EKN12uDywlFkV_GgtoqWFXv_ZQQmjCeBLVvtNJbUQA/s1600-h/IMG_2463.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs3nPttH9bBaN6NASpiZ2u0nQdv10emNmj3XhZbRhytAp3yWPSusmndTcG-MFoE1SvBo8oiUH5qN48AXJw3ZxOEiwiVrjfR9X73EKN12uDywlFkV_GgtoqWFXv_ZQQmjCeBLVvtNJbUQA/s200/IMG_2463.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297933438930120418" border="0" /></a></div> </div> </div><br />I had a lot of fun doing this and hope to do it again after the season finale. Off to find a recipe idea for a Flaming Frogurt...Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-66361755159757106922009-01-21T08:37:00.002-05:002009-01-21T08:46:38.177-05:00Happy Lost Day!!This is the story of Dave, who has never seen Lost. His friend Matt watches the show, and assures him that not only is it the best show <span style="font-style: italic;">ever</span>, but that he will not be able to just start watching it. Dave decides to catch up on all 4 seasons by watching them straight through, no breaks. Most major WTF moments are mentioned so consider this a SPOILER zone.<br /><br /><object height="295" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/iuFk1KKdNFw&hl=en&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/iuFk1KKdNFw&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="295" width="480"></embed></object><br /><br />From AnimosityPierre.comCayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-43996156006334751732009-01-13T16:00:00.001-05:002009-01-14T12:04:10.825-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 7The rest of the evening was nothing to thrilling. My husband and I enjoyed some time alone in town together, some beers and a half dozen raw oysters each. We came home and relieved my sister-in-law from her duty and had dinner at home, even though she said we could stay out and have dinner in a big persons restaurant for a change if we wanted to. But it had been a long day for both of us and we were eager to be home.<br /><br />So that was my day. I hope it wasn’t too boring. Since I posted it as if I had really been live blogging it will appear backwards, but I don't know how to fix that. All I can suggest is scrolling down to the first post and reading up. And yeah, I know that technically speaking, because the posts did not go up as the events happened this is not live blogging, it’s journaling. Also, I know it’s way too wordy to be live blogging. I’m considering it practice for another time. And it was fun.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The day after:</span> My son does in fact have conjunctivitis. He is home today and possibly tomorrow, which kind of sucks because he’s not sick, he’s full of energy but he’s still contagious so he can’t go to school. And he left his boots at school so we’re stuck inside. I won’t be live blogging this, as you can probably guess why.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-66290599488781020262009-01-13T12:45:00.002-05:002009-01-14T11:58:16.474-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 6The judge in charge of the jury pool comes to the room and we all assemble. He tells us there is good news and bad news. The good news is that eight jurors have been selected for trial. The bad news, the rest of us won’t be able to have that pleasure. I’m like, “What the…? Oh, we’re getting sprung! Yay!” I skedaddle out of there, and after calling my husband with the good news we agree to meet at Faneuil Hall for a couple beers when he gets out of work at 1:30. He also informs me that he heard from his sister who was called by my son’s school. They were sending him home early because he has conjunctivitis for the third time this school year. She was on her way to pick him up.<br /><br />I walk over and see that there are trucks full of police barriers, and two of the local news stations are setting up trucks in front of the historic building. I ask a cop what’s going on and he looks at me like I’m an idiot. “The State of the City Address,” he says with a tone that tells me he wants to add, “you moron” but knows he’s not allowed to. I, feeling stupid and not knowing what to say, say “Oh… is that done here?” He practically rolls his eyes and says “<span style="font-style: italic;">Yes</span>.” I walk away feeling embarrassed but then start thinking, “Ok, maybe as a resident of Boston I should know such a thing, but he doesn’t know where I live. What if I was a tourist, how would I know then? Huh? What if I arrived on a plane like, an hour ago?” I kick myself for not answering the cop with a “Guten Tag” and a bad German accent. I go inside because their used to be a shop that sold all political-themed stuff. I guess it closed (imagine that) so I look into an all Boston-themed store because I spot some ties featuring things like the Constitution and presidential signatures. (Did I mention my husband’s birthday is coming up?) The lady behind the counter asks, “So where you visiting from?” “Uh… I’m from Boston.” “Well, welcome to our city!” “Okaaaaay… thanks.” Next door to her there’s a sales person standing behind a counter fast asleep. I think they may have a gas leak in that building. Or maybe some 18th century mold hanging around affecting people's brains.<br /><br />I head over to the Salty Dog, our favorite place in the city, to wait for my hubby to join me. I sit and order a beer. I pull out my phone to text hubby my whereabouts and when he texts back my phone, sitting on the counter rings. And by ring I mean it screams “BLAH BLAH BLAH”, for that is my ringtone. The bartendress jumps and looks at me, then at the phone. She laughs and says, “Oh my God, how old is that phone?” I feel old and pathetic. I make sure to work into the conversation that I have a Facebook page so she thinks I’m cool again. She acts incredulous. I feel old again.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-796071146712788972009-01-13T11:05:00.000-05:002009-01-14T11:57:42.002-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 5About 6 minutes into “The Beginning of the End” (The first episode of <span style="font-style: italic;">Lost</span> Season 4) we get the call. I pack up everything and follow the officer and 25 or so other potential jurors to the elevator and up 3 floors to a courtroom. This courthouse is fairly new so the courtroom was quite nice. One of the jurors was a really cute kid. I couldn’t stop looking at him. I finally realized he looked exactly like a teenaged version of Zachary Quinto. The judge swore us in, and asked the questions about bias, and objectivity, did we know anyone related to the case, blah blah. I am Juror 18 today. After calling people up, discussing it, and excusing a couple people they were up to juror number 16. Then they excused Juror number 8, and they called Juror number 17, lil’ Sylar. I was next.<br /><br />Meanwhile, all this time I’m sitting next to Juror 19, who I am sure is a wee bit insane. When council approaches the sidebar, they play a white noise to drown out their voices, which I thought is a great idea. She, however, apparently has bionic hearing because she immediately plugged up her ears and dropped her head. They played it about 4 times, each time she would look at me as if to say, “Oh, the torture, <span style="font-style: italic;">the torture!</span>” and then slump over forward. The rest of the time she rocked side to side rolling her head around in a circle at this ridiculously slow tempo that just didn’t seem humanly possible. I inched as far away from her on the bench as I could. I remember now, she was the one who was in the bathroom when I arrived. So she’s insane <span style="font-style: italic;">and</span> has diarrhea. Dear God, please don’t make me end up sequestered with this woman.<br /><br />Luckily, for now, Juror 17 was the last picked for this particular trial, (except that if I had to be on a jury I would want to be on it with #17.) (Hubba hubba, if you catch my drift.) (what am I, 85?) so back downstairs we all went. Except for that moment when the elevator opened and I got out. I noticed everyone else were not getting out and were just staring at me. I realized I wasn't on the right floor and got back on, but not one of them said anything. Thanks, <span style="font-style: italic;">guys</span>. So now I’m back in the pool. The guy said they had three judges call for a jury today, two in the municipal courts - both criminal cases - and one in juvenile court. If they don’t plead out then I’m the next juror to be called.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-74542543680241350082009-01-13T09:30:00.002-05:002009-01-14T11:48:19.921-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 4So we finished our talk from the judge and the video of what is supposed to happen if we get seated. Or is it empaneled. I’m not sure what the difference is. Meanwhile my awesome seat I acquired sucks, since I am under the air conditioning (in January??) and my hands are freezing. Meanwhile out the window I see a lot of lawyery-looking people hustling in, and a lot of defendanty-looking people looking agitated, accompanied by a lot of worried mothery-looking people. Apparently there are three courts in this building, the Juvenile, the Municipal and the Housing courts.<br /><br />We have until 10 to goof off then at some point in the next three hours, apparently someone may come down and get us. Or we might just sit here. I’m fine with the waiting. There’s no wifi still, but I got my desktop cleared off nicely*, so I’m all set not going anywhere near a courtroom, nosiree, no how. I have had jury duty three times in the last four years. They say that if you get called, and you have proof of serving within the previous three years you don’t have to come back again. But when I got called in ‘07 and I said I had been in already in ‘05, they told me they reserve the right to call people in before their time is up and I had to show. I didn’t even try to postpone this one because of that. But the court officer who gave the talk about what we should expect just said I should have sent my deferment in. I don’t even know where my ‘07 proof is because I didn’t think they’d take it seriously. They seem to make the rules up as they go. The last two times I served I was just begging to be placed on a jury. I was excited for it. But now that my hubby has to be at work at 6 am, and my son has to be at school at 8 am, being empaneled would mean my husband would have to actually miss work just to get the boy to school. And I guess they can’t go in late in his job, so now if I get placed it would mean a possible job loss for my husband. I know an employer can’t legally fire a person on a jury, but in this case my husband isn’t protected the same way. So what do you bet I get on a trial?<br /><br />*And in an emergency I have the first six episodes of Lost Season 4 with me.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-63392651530568937122009-01-13T08:30:00.000-05:002009-01-14T11:43:09.894-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 3I need to be at the courthouse at 8:00, and I’ve gotten off the subway at 7:20. I can see the courthouse from the station so I have oodles of free time. I wander over to the Dunkin’ Donuts and go in. I really don’t like Dunkies for food but I thought maybe I should force myself, since when I did get ridiculously hungry I would want something. I can’t decide on what I want, and decide to leave, but I did enjoy the tiny little old lady, probably a great-grandmother, with the Razr phone texting like a fiend standing in line next to me. I decide to just see if I can get into the courthouse since I’m tired of walking. Hey, they’re open early! So I go through security, and check in at the desk. I’m the fourth one there. I stake out the room with the tables and spot the perfect chair by the window near an outlet, but first I want to go to the bathroom. Since I don’t know how safe it is at this point to leave my stuff unattended I bring it all with me. It’s occupied. It’s taking f-o-r-e-v-e-r. I’m dancing around, I gotta go so badly! Plus I don’t want that prime piece of real estate I scoped out to go to anyone else. I’m starting to get antsy. Finally I hear the toilet flush and the sink running. I hear a towel being ripped off… I’m waiting… waiting… still waiting… and the toilet flushes again. So I wait some more. And some more. The toilet flushes again. The sink runs again. The towel rips again. I can’t freakin’ take this any longer!! I start jiggling the handle furiously to let her know she’s not the only person in the world. Ok, I actually do the little “try to open the door as if I just now arrived and had no idea someone was in there, my mistake” move, but I was thinking furiously as I did it. If you’re wondering, I did make it without an accident. Just barely.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-56424599774211827762009-01-13T08:00:00.002-05:002009-01-14T12:13:25.186-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury Duty Pt. 2I hopped a bus around 6:45 right in front of my house, In the 10 years I’ve lived there that’s the first time ever that I’ve done that. Why yes, I am in fact a spoiled suburban-raised WASP who only drives everywhere, why do you ask? The bus driver plowed up into the snowbank to get me which, actually I thought was pretty helpful. The next guy we picked up tried to hop into the street to board when the bus approached and almost got himself run over. She scolded him for one really long minute before sending him to his seat. Yes, she ordered him like a schoolmarm to a recalcitrant student. He and I shared an eye roll. I mean, she was right, what he did wasn’t smart, if he had known what she was going to do, but he didn’t, so I didn’t think she had to be so bitchy about it. Moments later, stuck behind a line of cars, the woman pulled the bus into the oncoming lane and gunned it. Yes, gunned it into oncoming traffic. Suddenly, before she hit the car in front of us she turned left, while still accelerating, into a bus-only cut-through. I looked at Almost-Squashed Guy and mouthed “What The FUCK?”<br /><br />We got to the station in one piece, miraculously, and I hopped on an inbound red line train. All the seats were either full or in between people. I figured, I’m a tough broad, I’ll just grab on to this pole, lean up against it and enjoy the ride. Moments after leaving the station, I hear a voice say, “Excuse me.” I look down and the elderly gentleman sitting on the end of the row I’m standing next to is looking up at me. I think, “Aw, I’ll bet he’s going to try to offer me a seat, but I won’t take it, I should tell hi—” “Excuse me miss, but you’re standing too close to my elbow, I need to spread out here.” His friend laughs and says “He has a space issue.” I do not say “Then why the fuck is he on public transportation?” Instead I smile coldly and move about 6 inches away and make a note that I seem to be swearing a lot this morning. The next stop I grab a seat and another fellow stands in the exact same spot I had been in. He does not get the “excuse me, but” from the guy. Interesting. I switch trains and at the next stop a man gets on who asks if he can have the seat next to me. I say “of course”, and he squeezes in. In the time it takes to get to the next stop I know that he thinks the seats in trains should reflect societies growing backsides, that he was one of 11 kids and that as a kid he wore the same size as his older brother, except in a “husky”. So, is this pretty much what I’ve been missing all these years in the public transportation experience?Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-4191352115310470462009-01-13T07:57:00.001-05:002009-01-14T12:10:22.889-05:00Kinda Sorta Live Blogging My Jury DutyI just recently learned about Live-blogging (credit goes to JoJOpinionated) and I thought I’d try it out today since I will have absolutely nothing better to do. Except maybe work on my novel. Which I should but I know I won't. Anyway, since there does not appear to be wifi at the moment I am going to write entries as if they were live, and then post them when I get home, or when wifi pops up, which I’m hoping will happen when more businesses around the area are open. At the moment it’s 7:57.<br /><br />I woke up around 4:45 this morning. Strike that, I got up around 4:45. At 4 am my son screamed out that he couldn’t open his eyes. When I got in there they were crusted shut, but when I came back with the warm washcloth and eye drops (we’ve been through this before) he said, and I quote, “Go away. I’m sleeping now.” Little bastard. Who I love with all my heart, no, really. So this means my dear sweet sister-in-law, who, while a wonderful auntie, does not have kids of her own, and now has to deal with my little handful’s newest conjunctivitis battle. I pity her. This also might mean she has to keep him home for the day. I weep for her. I’m not kidding. She arrived at 6:20 while I was making sandwiches for me and the boy. I meant to skip my shower to make my self look less appealing to any attorneys that might be eyeballing me for their jury but in the end opted to shower, thus making me late. This means I have a sandwich and two dinky bags of chips. This will not last me. I could have stopped for breakfast but I honestly don’t like breakfast foods unless A) I make them or B) they are at a greasy spoon diner. I want to sit and savor runny fried eggs, toast and maybe some nice corned beef hash. I don’t do croissants, donuts, soggy bagels, egg white flatbread whozywhatzies. This limits me a bit. So I guess I’ll eat my sammich for breakfast and roll the dice at lunch for something in the area. The upshot of skipping breakfast is that I got to the courthouse bright and early and now I’m set up at a table, near a plug, by the window. This will make the torture easier to bear. But more on that later.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-8757058704558642642009-01-07T22:30:00.007-05:002009-01-07T23:11:38.680-05:00Conversations With My Son<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje0Y_f6rF8GRiNuzbQ6anWZXKvGFFCPFpmQhgsym1VNpqrjp4EaOAcwPCUIqM2JV-qhJbBgWRAun7ITHd2xpVFOBkHNUqQ-4QOIccKKzGLzzIng_J4LlbAHqfehHiWTDWQfn5D3g17Pc0/s1600-h/IMG_5986.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 191px; height: 143px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje0Y_f6rF8GRiNuzbQ6anWZXKvGFFCPFpmQhgsym1VNpqrjp4EaOAcwPCUIqM2JV-qhJbBgWRAun7ITHd2xpVFOBkHNUqQ-4QOIccKKzGLzzIng_J4LlbAHqfehHiWTDWQfn5D3g17Pc0/s200/IMG_5986.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5288765681971269538" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">Son:</span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">(walking into kitchen)</span></span> I need help drawing a boat.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> I need help cleaning the kitchen.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Son:</span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">(turns around)</span></span> I can draw a boat.<br /><br />And a bonus classic "Conversation" from two years ago:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Son:</span> Mommy. Mommy. Mommy. Mommy.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me:</span> Patience, young Padawan.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Son:</span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">(looking perplexed)</span></span> I'm not a Padawan. I'm a Pada-three*!<br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" ><br /><br /><br />(<span style="font-size:100%;">*</span>He's five now, in case you were not aware.)</span>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-57004727843360731212008-12-31T21:59:00.005-05:002009-02-05T07:07:44.345-05:00I Resolve...2008 sucked monkey ass. I know I'm not alone in that assessment. I never make resolutions, but I think this year I just have to.<br /><br />In 2009:<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgqG0XJC_BIqzzvZBtIkbVWt8IXB1BuvVm0R48gZ2-Ia00WgONLo3qLJ-P2F7MkorkXicjjYJiro8bjXHbjndw58AVp4oHU01_iRw5QDrA9ZAxPsBVxHrUfbjiZbrkILtlSqVD_xZcmYQ/s1600-h/new-year.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 142px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgqG0XJC_BIqzzvZBtIkbVWt8IXB1BuvVm0R48gZ2-Ia00WgONLo3qLJ-P2F7MkorkXicjjYJiro8bjXHbjndw58AVp4oHU01_iRw5QDrA9ZAxPsBVxHrUfbjiZbrkILtlSqVD_xZcmYQ/s200/new-year.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286159211890051554" border="0" /></a><br /><ul><li>I will go back to Physical Therapy.</li><li>I will use the new ankle I got in 2008 and get healthy. (It would be about time.)</li><li>I will try to finish that novel. (I refuse to set myself up for a guilt trip so as long as I <span style="font-style: italic;">try</span> I'll be happy)</li><li>I will get better organized with my writing and housekeeping.</li><li>I will pay cash for what I need and stop relying on credit cards.</li></ul><br />Feel free to share your resolutions in the comments, or tell why you don't make resolutions.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-44099807683504739642008-12-25T12:47:00.005-05:002008-12-25T20:26:45.100-05:00Merry Christmas to all fans of Lost!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY6EGvZl86UZIo2RjJziRiqsj3Bui85v4V0RFC7tJKLQ2rPkOetd2bf4GwNb6XHJ1o1a87MjX_fk4X9NrnPfrlas-5RlG3tP-wi3C7ZtPhTgIjToZfI2knFocMJ_9BSW7UuvKjrTXj-u0/s1600-h/90_02_70---Christmas-Tree_web+copy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 177px; height: 203px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY6EGvZl86UZIo2RjJziRiqsj3Bui85v4V0RFC7tJKLQ2rPkOetd2bf4GwNb6XHJ1o1a87MjX_fk4X9NrnPfrlas-5RlG3tP-wi3C7ZtPhTgIjToZfI2knFocMJ_9BSW7UuvKjrTXj-u0/s400/90_02_70---Christmas-Tree_web+copy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283903362222464050" border="0" /></a>I'm dreaming of a Lost Christmas<br />Just like the ones with Ethan Rom<br />Where the treeline rustles,<br />and Sawyer hustles<br />To shoot bears and boars and Tom.<br /><br />I'm dreaming of a Lost Christmas<br />With every Other that you fight<br />May your bears and bunnies be white<br />And may all your Dharma Beers be light<br /><br />I’m dreaming of a Lost Christmas<br />With marbles colored black and white<br />Where the tree frog’s singing<br />And ears are ringing<br />From when the hatch blew up that night.<br /><br />I'm dreaming of a Lost Christmas<br />With every number that is cursed.<br />May McCutcheon’s knock down your thirst,<br />And may all your bad luck be reversed.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-58651362153145513252008-12-11T09:02:00.007-05:002008-12-11T10:00:11.497-05:00What the...?I love going through the "recommended for you" items on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/">Amazon.com</a>. I shop a lot with them for pretty much everybody I buy gifts for, and it makes for some interesting recommendations. If you haven't used it yourself, it makes a suggestion and then says at the bottom what you have purchased or wish-listed that makes them think you will be interested in the item.<br /><br />Today I got this recommendation:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixvJ-kcbo4xNWTYGi5kPD1ClpEqF76ta9_7oNX32VIgtuCpWPvcjLxpq4Ol8jKuAKh9vsCGoDgPepXtEPAVaiqTpsfhsQX3eMUg0P7mqkeCVvS5GmbDqtz0t_tnQcxg6KurVFIPAUKMsQ/s1600-h/Picture+1.png"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 119px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixvJ-kcbo4xNWTYGi5kPD1ClpEqF76ta9_7oNX32VIgtuCpWPvcjLxpq4Ol8jKuAKh9vsCGoDgPepXtEPAVaiqTpsfhsQX3eMUg0P7mqkeCVvS5GmbDqtz0t_tnQcxg6KurVFIPAUKMsQ/s400/Picture+1.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278546911923114018" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />If you notice, it says it has recommended this CD of Celtic New Age Christmas music because I bought an instant hot water heater for my kitchen sink.<br /><br />Um, ok.<br /><br />Is there a connection of which I am not aware? Do all the hip new-agers like hot water, but are impatient? Is this based on the stereotype that the Irish like to boil their food a lot? Perhaps it assumes I drink a lot of tea and would therefore be requiring a fun and quirky coaster made from a Celtic Christmas CD?<br /><br />Looking at the play list, I see a song by the name "Un Flambeau". Did the "Recommendation Bot" think, "If you like scalding water you'll love a song about something that sounds kinda flame-related. 'Cause, you know, flames are hot too. And it's french. Pretty similar, am I right?" There is also a song called "Gloucestershire Wassail". <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wassail">Wassail</a> is served hot, maybe they think I will filter cider, ale or mead right through the pipes and make a festive holiday beverage <span style="font-style: italic;">in an instant!</span> Perhaps it's as simple as seeing the song "Snow" and thinking one would want a nice cup of cocoa after it's finished playing.<br /><br />Well, whatever the reasons, Amazon, I will be taking a pass on this recommendation. Thanks, but no thanks.Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-73626620782046129002008-12-10T12:52:00.004-05:002008-12-10T12:57:50.639-05:00A Christmas HamLast night was the Christmas show at my son's school. Who knew that having two parents with ties to stand-up comedy would produce such a shy and withdrawn child. Oh wait, mine is the one in the red vest? Then disregard that last statement.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/DYQxc9aRuXg&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/DYQxc9aRuXg&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br />My biggest wish this holiday season is that my parents' computers can play this video.<br /><br />Merry Christmas, everybody!Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-70559693033984195362008-11-30T12:08:00.005-05:002008-12-01T10:06:39.245-05:00NaNo Update<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX54mJlYyWjsoKfUkwLIznXsjHjddEPJb6mVNR57GdEpltFQV_joTEyoBTTc4sokQC1OhE4kMI124_2g_bAoSLVzjHIAgiKxe0Y-71P2_Nz9d-9EcCGhtudQU5ogm-w2pZsirPXl6QN-s/s1600-h/nanowrimo_participant_icon_122x244.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 120px; height: 238px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX54mJlYyWjsoKfUkwLIznXsjHjddEPJb6mVNR57GdEpltFQV_joTEyoBTTc4sokQC1OhE4kMI124_2g_bAoSLVzjHIAgiKxe0Y-71P2_Nz9d-9EcCGhtudQU5ogm-w2pZsirPXl6QN-s/s320/nanowrimo_participant_icon_122x244.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5274499975427104514" border="0" /></a>Well, I'm not going to win, that much is obvious. And at the moment my goal of, "If I just make it to halfway I'll be happy" is also about 5k words and 12 hours away from being a reality. I would love to say I am proud to just have written more words then ever before and gotten as far as I have in the story, but I am not. I wasted many, many days that could have been productive. Like today, for instance. I spent the morning playing <span style="font-style: italic;">Heroes</span> trivia on Facebook. I could have written a grand or so in that time. Then there was that weekend early in the month where, instead of writing, I read Harry Potter books <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Harry-Potter-Sorcerers-Stone-Book/dp/059035342X/ref=br_lf_m_399204_1_2_img?ie=UTF8&s=books&pf_rd_p=289171001&pf_rd_s=center-2&pf_rd_t=1401&pf_rd_i=399204&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1MENMJ04JAG3W40C4E8Y">one</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Harry-Potter-Prisoner-Azkaban-Book/dp/0439136350/ref=pd_sim_b_1">three</a> and most of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Harry-Potter-Goblet-Fire-Book/dp/0439139597/ref=pd_sim_b_1">four</a>. <span style="font-size:85%;">(who the heck did I lend book two to???)</span> I may have written 4,000 words in one day last Monday but I haven't even tried to be productive since then.<br /><br />On the up-side, I will say I really believe in my story. Every once in a while I write a passage that I think is pretty awesome. And a lot of my hesitation at the beginning was, as a good friend pointed out to me, because deep, deep down, I didn't think I could really do it. Now I know I can write 20,000 words, and even do one or more chapters in one day, and actually like what I wrote. That is a huge hurdle to get over, confidence-wise. Now I just have to tackle the Wall of Discipline. In an earlier post I mentioned the challenge I helped develop called <a href="http://www.thescribeasylum.com/sa/">R1</a>. We have decided to do something different this upcoming January. We will have an "Add 25k Words to Your Novel Month". It can be something you've been working on for a while, or something you have just begun to think about. No rules, no restrictions, no cool web badges or counter widgets; just a bunch of people writing at the same time, checking in with each other and giving encouragement. Then comes <a href="http://www.nanoedmo.net/xoops2/">NaNoEdMo</a>.... but I'll worry about that another day.<br /><br />Maybe, just for shits and giggles, I will try to make it to 25k by midnight tonight. If I make it, I buy myself the <a href="http://store.lettersandlight.org/product.php?productid=62">shirt</a>. Because then, to me, I'll have earned it. Um... gotta go!Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942341583976563968.post-18680307621990351302008-11-28T11:43:00.007-05:002008-11-28T12:06:22.804-05:00This Is Why...... I don't 'do' Black Friday.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2008/11/28/2008-11-28_worker_dies_at_long_island_walmart_after.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Worker dies at Long Island Wal-Mart after being trampled in Black Friday stampede</span></a><div style="text-align: left;"><blockquote><span style="font-size:100%;"><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2008/11/28/2008-11-28_worker_dies_at_long_island_walmart_after.html"></a></span></blockquote><span style="font-size:100%;">From the article by Joe Gould, <span style="font-style: italic;">Daily News</span> Writer:</span><blockquote><p><span style="font-size:100%;">Witnesses said the surging throngs of shoppers knocked the man down. He fell and was </span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEuZDqVSx6kfu8ysOPNo7Zl4aEQmaYUoL9vaA2c5TYUlW6SwTzISver0xE37PFk8bGOyZlXKfCe_98miamAIjZTybLVzZJ46uVuLgjfVuZO8Yk8TcRrI0UWbBAMA3Wq2-nkftflZoJpqo/s1600-h/black+friday+electronics.bmp"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 298px; height: 198px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEuZDqVSx6kfu8ysOPNo7Zl4aEQmaYUoL9vaA2c5TYUlW6SwTzISver0xE37PFk8bGOyZlXKfCe_98miamAIjZTybLVzZJ46uVuLgjfVuZO8Yk8TcRrI0UWbBAMA3Wq2-nkftflZoJpqo/s320/black+friday+electronics.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5273754708292693778" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:100%;">stepped on. As he gasped for air, shoppers ran over and around him.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:100%;">"He was bum-rushed by 200 people," said <a title="Jimmy Overby" href="http://www.nydailynews.com/topics/Jimmy+Overby">Jimmy Overby</a>, 43, a co-worker. </span><span style="font-size:100%;">"They took the doors off the hinges. He was trampled and killed in front of me. They took me </span><span style="font-size:100%;">down too...I literally had to fight people off my back."</span><br /></p></blockquote><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />Note: The picture is just random, not from the Wal-Mart story</span><br /></div></div>Cayleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072637183226903415noreply@blogger.com0